Janet

Location: California

Age at diagnosis: 51

Diagnosis: Endocervical adenocarcinoma

Stage of cancer: IB2

How my story begins: My journey with cancer began with a diagnosis of breast cancer, specifically DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ). Faced with this life-altering news, I made the difficult decision to undergo a double mastectomy and reconstruction surgery. I was determined to take control of my health, and after surgery, I began to heal—both physically and emotionally. I chose a holistic approach to my recovery, focusing on my overall well-being and making lifestyle changes to support my body’s healing process. However, just as I was regaining my strength, I was diagnosed with endocervical adenocarcinoma cancer, a type of cervical cancer. It felt like a cruel twist of fate, but I knew I had to keep fighting.

Life before my diagnosis: Before cancer became a defining part of my journey, I was living a fulfilling life, embracing the joys and challenges that came my way. I was healthy, active, and doing my best to take care of my body and mind. Like many women, I had dreams and aspirations that I was actively pursuing. Little did I know that my world was about to change drastically.

How I felt after diagnosis: Hearing the words, "you have cancer" once was devastating. Hearing them again felt like the ground beneath me had crumbled. I was overwhelmed with fear, frustration, and sadness. I had already endured so much, and now I was facing yet another battle. I questioned why this was happening to me and how I would find the strength to get through it again.

Telling my family and friends: Sharing my diagnosis with my loved ones was incredibly difficult. They had walked with me through my breast cancer journey, and now I had to break the news that I was facing cancer once more. I saw the worry in their eyes, the unspoken fears they tried to hide. Their support meant everything to me, but I also knew that my battle was not just my own—it was theirs too.

My treatment: To fight cervical cancer, my treatment plan included a radical hysterectomy to remove the cancer surgically, 25 rounds of external radiation to target any remaining cancer cells, and 5 rounds of Cisplatin chemotherapy to reduce the risk of recurrence.

How I felt after treatment: Once treatment ended, I felt a mix of relief and uncertainty. My body had been through so much, and though I was grateful to be done with treatment, I was left with both physical and emotional scars. Healing was not just about recovering from the side effects but also about rediscovering myself after cancer.

What was most difficult for me: The hardest part was feeling like I had lost control over my body. Cancer took so much from me—my breasts, my uterus, my energy. It challenged my identity and my sense of femininity. I had to grieve the parts of me that were gone while learning to embrace the strong, resilient woman I had become.

What I did to help myself: I leaned into holistic healing methods, focusing on nutrition, mindfulness, and movement. I deepened my spiritual connection by studying the Bible with Jehovah's Witnesses and attending Christian meetings of worship, found comfort in journaling, and surrounded myself with positive influences. Therapy helped me process my emotions, and connecting with other survivors reminded me that I was not alone.

My life after cancer: Life after cancer is different, but it is beautiful. I have learned to appreciate every moment and prioritize my well-being. I take care of myself in ways I never did before, not just physically but emotionally and spiritually. Cancer may have taken a lot, but it also gave me a new perspective on life.

Where I am today: Today, I am stronger than ever. I am a survivor, an advocate, and a warrior. My journey has shaped me in ways I never expected, and though it has been incredibly challenging, I am proud of the person I have become.

What I want other women to know: Listen to your body and advocate for your health. You are stronger than you think. It’s okay to feel afraid, but don’t let fear stop you from fighting. Healing is a journey—be kind to yourself. You are not alone.

How I will try to help others: I want to use my story to inspire and support other women facing cancer. Whether through sharing my experience, offering guidance, or simply being a source of encouragement, I hope to make a difference. No one should have to face this journey alone, and I want to be there for others the way people were there for me.

Any additional information you'd like to share: Cancer may have been a chapter in my life, but it does not define me. I am living proof that resilience, hope, and love can carry you through even the darkest of times. If you are facing this battle, know that you are seen, you are valued, and you are never alone.