When I found out something was wrong: In July of 2008, I finally admitted to myself that I had to see a doctor. I had been putting off going to see a doctor for nine years mainly because I hated the gynecological exam. But something was very wrong. At the doctor’s office, the gynecologist told me that I had advanced cervical cancer and he thought some lymph nodes were involved. I asked him whether I was going to live. He said that if the CAT scan results were good, I would have a 50% chance of survival.

How I felt after my diagnosis: I felt guilty at what a stupid thing I had done to not get a Pap test for that many years. I blamed myself for putting my family and friends through this nightmare.

My treatment: Chemotherapy, internal and external radiation

Why I am grateful for what I went through: I realize what is important in life and what is not. I now do yoga, work out, spend more time with family and friends and volunteer for those in need. I realize how extremely lucky I am just to be alive.

Why I share my story: I hope that women won’t make the same mistake that I made. Please don’t think you won’t be the one. Get all your preventive screenings when it is recommended. Trust me – the pain and embarrassment of getting screened for cervical cancer is nothing compared to what might happen to you if you don’t go to your doctor!