Sue

Location: Ottawa, Canada

Cancerversary: October 2015

Age at diagnosis: 35

Diagnosis: Cervical cancer (unspecified)

Stage of cancer: I

How my story begins: I was one of those women who thought it was fine to put off my Pap test...and I did for 5 years until my family doctor insisted I go. So, in March of 2015, I did. The doctor performing the Pap test told me that I was very inflamed, that it didn't always mean cancer but she was concerned. In April, I was told my test came back with abnormal cells and I was being sent to a gynecologist at the local hospital. He performed a colposcopy and biopsy. In June, I received the call that I had cervical cancer.

Life before my diagnosis: Before I was diagnosed with cervical cancer, I had no symptoms. I was a busy mom, wife and full-time employee. Without a regular scheduled Pap test, I would not have know there was anything wrong.

How I felt after diagnosis: Numb...shocked...scared... all words that come to mind. I never thought it would happen to me...I had no symptoms.

Telling my family and friends: It was so hard telling my family and friends. It's a difficult thing to have to tell someone. There were a lot of tears.

My treatment: Once I was diagnosed, I was transferred to an oncologist. He performed another colposcopy. I was told he would have all of my test results transferred to him for his team to review...then they'd decide on the next step. In September, I had a cone biopsy, a day surgery where cone-shaped tissue is removed from my cervix. I was also told in 3-5 years, I should have a hysterectomy. In October, I was told that I am now cancer-free.

How I felt after treatment: I felt so lucky. It could have been so much worse. I read other women's stories and what they have been through and I just feel lucky. But in the back of my mind, I can't help but worry...what if it comes back?

What was most difficult for me: Trying to stay strong and carry on with life while my doctors determined what was next was very difficult. I was scared...I have a 5 year old boy. So many thoughts went through my head.

What I did to help myself: I tried to focus on the positive. My cancer was caught early. I even co-hosted a Karaoke for Cancer Awareness Fundraiser and raised almost $4000 for the Cancer Society. I'm hoping to make it an annual event. Sharing my story with others makes it feel like I am doing some good. If one person who hears my story schedules her Pap test, then it was worth it.

My life after cancer: After cancer, I started to look at things differently. You really appreciate the people who were there for you. I always try to make the most out of life and be happier.

Where I am today: I feel good...stronger then before. Life is precious and sometimes a scare like this gives you the wakeup you need.

What I want other women to know: Don't put off your regular scheduled test. I did and I just got lucky that my cancer had not progressed worse.

How I will try to help others: Raising awareness....sharing my story. And telling anyone who will listen about the importance of regular Pap tests.