Cervivor Colombia

Sometime in 1999, while I was battling cervical cancer, a young doctor told me “you need to learn as much as you can about your cancer.” I didn’t know there was anything to learn. It was cancer, after all, but I never forgot his words and started searching for information. Cervical cancer was not something I had heard of before and HPV was not even mentioned in my diagnosis, as I was never tested for it. Once I started learning about the link between cervical cancer and HPV and how common HPV infections were, I decided to talk about it with my friends, family, and whoever wanted to listen. Not surprisingly, I found out most of my friends and family had never heard about HPV, let alone suspect they may have come in contact with it at any point in time. That’s when I realized I needed to talk to others about HPV, this common but dangerous virus that can lead to cancer. While I was open to sharing information, I always felt like a lonely voice that would never have any significant impact. I would’ve never imagined that one day, I would be sharing my story in Colombia.

Cervivor:

I first connected with Tamika online in 2009, but it wasn’t until 2015 that I met her in person after she insisted I attended my very first Cervivor School; she assured me I needed to do it. I really needed Cervivor. The feeling of being among other women who shared, not only my diagnosis, but a commitment to eradicate cervical cancer, cannot be described. I left informed, prepared, and empowered to share my story, I knew my experience as a survivor would move others to action. I was part of a strong community of advocates. I was convinced that our stories and our voices could save lives.

Over the years I’ve shared my story online, one on one, and at various events, and while I knew I was doing my part to eradicate this cancer, it never feels like I’m doing enough. You see, as a woman of Latino roots, I feel a burden for my Latino community; after all, we have the highest rates of cervical cancer, and are #2 in death rates due to this disease. There’s certainly more work to do and I, along with the other Latino Cervivor Ambassadors carry this desire to impact the Latino community with us. Recently, I had an opportunity to do just that.

Cervivor was recently contacted by a company, that, after hearing one of our Cervivor Ambassadors share her story, knew that the voices of cervical cancer survivors was a missing piece in their efforts to eliminate cervical cancer in Latin America. They wanted us to join efforts with them, knowing the impact our stories could have. I was lucky enough to be the first one to join in this effort and soon I found myself on a plane to Cartagena, Colombia.

The day of my flight I was proudly wearing my Cervivor Ambassador shirt; after all, our organization, our network of cervical cancer survivors was about to leave its footprint in Latin America. Finally our stories, the stories of Cervivor were going to have an impact in the health of the women of Colombia. I was nervous and I was excited, I couldn’t wait to get there.

I shared my story at a medical conference; the room was reserved to host 200 individuals, the doors had to be closed after counting close to 300. Yes, close to 300 Colombian gynecologists, obstetricians, and other health professionals came in to hear the latest on HPV testing and the story of a cervical cancer survivor. Afterwards, some stopped by to ask questions and talk about the challenges they face with their patients, wanting to know what could be done differently to help their patients. What an incredible opportunity I’ve been given to be the patient voice!

During this trip I was able to meet with some of the lead doctors that are developing and implementing HPV screening and follow up guidelines in efforts to reduce the rates of cervical cancer cases and cervical cancer related deaths in this beautiful country. They shared with me the trouble doctors are having communicating with their patients. When women are told they have an HPV infection, shame takes over them, even though they’ve done nothing wrong; some worry about what to tell their husbands or relatives, and the shame they feel is at times is so much that they don’t return for follow up. For others, the problem is accessing care as they live in remote areas, or overcoming cultural and/or religious barriers… and thus the cancer rates continues to rise.

The good Colombian doctors are committed to helping the women in their country and they think our stories will help these women know they are not alone, that it is okay to ask questions and follow up with their doctors, that they did nothing wrong, they did nothing to deserve cancer. It is believed that our Cervivor stories will make a difference and get these women to go to their doctors for their Pap and HPV tests and the needed follow up. The doctors want their patients to have Cervivor contact information and we are ready to welcome them to our supportive community. It was truly an honor to be part of these conversations.

I felt right at home in Colombia; the warm weather, the colorful buildings, the sound of the ocean, the tropical fruits I love so much… but what I loved the most, was the warm and welcoming Colombian people. I met so many people who are committed to improve the health of Colombian women and I can’t wait to go back to follow up on our work there.

As I was flying back home, I kept thinking about my doctor’s words 19 years ago and about my first Cervivor School, as both of these things had such a big impact in my life. He may never know it but Dr. Rivera-Gautier planted a seed that later Cervivor would feed to make me an advocate. A recent story on ethnic and racial disparities in cervical cancer stated “globally, a woman dies every 2 minutes from this entirely preventable disease”[1]; I am proud to be part of an organization that is working hard to change that.

[1] Ethnic and racial disparities in cervical cancer: lessons from a modelling study of cervical cancer prevention

Ginsburg, Ophira et al.

The Lancet Public Health , Volume 3 , Issue 1 , e8 – e9

Read Maria’s Cervivor Story here.

 

Transitioning from Patient to Advocate

You have cancer.

Those 3 words would impact my life in ways I never imagined.

I heard those words in January 2016, which coincidentally is Cervical Cancer Awareness Month. At the time, I was too busy worrying about fighting cancer that I didn’t pause to think why I had never heard of this cancer before.

March 2016 I was declared NED (No Evidence of Disease) and life was supposed to go on, back to normal. What I didn’t realize is that I couldn’t just go back to my life.  Cancer had happened and I was not able to move past it. One night I came across a blog about a group called, “Cervivor” and I was intrigued by the name. I started following them on Facebook where I saw a post about an upcoming Cervivor School and they were awarding limited travel scholarships; I submitted my application for a travel scholarship and I waited. I remember thinking that my story was not special enough or I wasn’t sick enough to earn a spot at this school. Thankfully, Team Cervivor felt differently about my story.

One of the impactful things that happened during Cervivor School was the final morning.  All of the attendees were handed a sheet of paper with the following:

One thing I feel comfortable doing to advocate is: and I wrote “Like the Peyton Project for bullying I am going to crochet teal cancer ribbons and put them in public places with hashtags #CervicalCancer #Cervivor #DontFearTheSmear #CervicalCancerAwareness #CervivorAdvocate #MakePapAPriority”

 

When I got home, I went through my suitcase and pulled out the paper, I photographed it, and shared it on my Facebook.  I wanted it as a way to hold myself accountable. I still have this sheet of paper and I look at it every day on my desk.

I started a project to meet this goal: Operation Teal. I started out getting my ribbons crocheted, labeled, and distributed from Illinois.  Today these ribbons have been reported as far as Rwanda, England, Canada, Bahamas, South America, and Greece. Operation Teal has been very well received! Many people requested ribbons to help spread awareness for cervical cancer; many of these individuals had never heard of cervical cancer unless someone close to them were diagnosed.

This project was a lead into my active advocacy. I took my Facebook account from a page about my life to a full on cervical cancer awareness page. So much so that I believe people wanted me to start posting about my dogs in their outfits again, it is about finding a balance. People was told I would get tired of talking about cancer. Well, I didn’t and I couldn’t go back to posting just cute pictures. You see I had met women and put faces to cervical cancer; many women, including Erica, Sarah, Cemonia, Lauren and Tamika and each one of them had an effect on me. I was so moved by their stories, I knew I had to keep talking about this cancer no matter what because they matter. . . I matter.

Late 2016 and all of 2017 was all about advocacy from almost daily Facebook posts, proclamations from the Illinois governor, speaking at two Cervivor Schools, co-hosting events with my oncologist, news interviews, an ongoing jewelry fundraiser for Cervivor, and helping other women who were diagnosed with cervical cancer either online or in person. One interview with a local hometown newspaper was picked up by the Associated Press! I was invited to be a part of The Woman to Woman peer mentoring program. I was honored to have been asked to be a part of an advisory board as a patient advocate with the University of Chicago Medicine.

One of my most treasured moments of 2017 was while I attended Cervivor School, Delray Beach, Florida.  I was awarded the Cervivor Champion Award. I was completely speechless, and had no idea that when Tamika Felder, the founder of Cervivor, was speaking about the recipient, that it was me.  I never thought of myself as a champion. When I first started talking about my cancer story, I was doing it to help myself. It was very therapeutic to finally be able to talk openly about the chapter in my life called cancer.

Honestly, I cannot even believe all of this happened in such a relatively short time; it is just crazy how such a horrible event in my life and being a Cervivor School scholarship recipient changed everything for me. I am forever grateful to Cervivor. I don’t believe any of this would be happening had it not been for Cervivor! What started out as “I have to let my friends know this can happen to them”, has turned into so much more.

I do what I do because it is important to talk about and raise awareness for a cancer that in the U.S. alone takes the lives of 4,000+ women annually. So many people have never heard of this cancer; myself included and I want to change that. Did I want to be an advocate? Hardly. I was such an introvert and guarded person before cancer and Cervivor. I was a person afraid of public speaking and I certainly was not a person who could talk openly about my vagina and sex!

I have learned so much about myself and I know my WHY. That WHY drives me every day to talk about cervical cancer, raise awareness, and make impactful changes in the lives of the women I meet. I do what I do so no one else has to hear those 3 words. Today we have the knowledge and a cancer prevention vaccine that can eradicate this cancer. I feel very strongly that, as a Cervivor Ambassador, it is my duty to share what I know and to help others.

Check out Paulette’s story here:  https://cervivor.org/stories/paulette/

Paulette Apostolou resides in Illinois with her loving husband and two rescue Min Pins. She is the owner/designer of ThePartyDeeva.com and founder of Operation Teal; an awareness ribbon campaign she started in 2016 after attending Cervivor School Louisville. Contact her at  [email protected]. She is available for speaking/advocacy events.  #WeAreCervivor