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Chapter 2: Growing, Learning, and Thriving Through Cervivor

It seems so surreal to be celebrating another work anniversary with Cervivor. Another year of incredible awareness initiatives, advocacy, education, and outreach plus community support for cervical cancer and HPV-related cancer patients, survivors, and thrivers. If you’re new here, please take a moment and read my introductory blog “Hi, I’m Morgan!” and my “One Year At Cervivor Taught Me” reflection post to bring you up to speed.

I started my cancer journey at 24 years old at a time when I was just getting my footing in my adult life, in my career as a dental assistant, and setting myself up for a bright future ahead. But life has a funny way of placing a wrench right in the middle of those plans we all carefully curate. I wouldn’t face just one cervical cancer diagnosis, but I would be thrown into the arena once again to face a metastatic recurrence in my lungs. I spent the greater part of two years just trying to survive. It was a grave reminder of how truly precious our time is here.   

I’m now standing 8 years out from that initial diagnosis with 7 of them being declared with no evidence of disease. I’ve been reflecting on everything I’ve been through and what I’ve been able to accomplish since then: the end of treatment, starting a Bachelor’s program just two weeks after completing chemotherapy; volunteering as a Cervivor Ambassador and patient advocate for so many organizations in my home state and beyond; all the way to getting my own apartment again, graduating with a Master’s degree, and landing a position with the organization that strengthened my voice.   

Over the course of the last two years, I’ve been learning and defining my role as the Community Engagement Liaison, as a nonprofit professional, and as a patient advocate. It has been a whirlwind of emotions supporting our community, from celebration to the unexpected and inevitable hits – you know, the bad follow-up scans, unexpected treatment side effects, recurrences, and unbearable losses. Cervical cancer is not an easy cancer. There are all of these additional layers of trauma thrown into the mix and it can be hard to articulate everything to those who haven’t set foot in our shoes. But we try. It’s not until we’ve met someone who has been through it and can say, “I have been there,” and “You’ve got this!” that you truly feel heard, accepted, and safe. I know because it happened that way for me too. 

Through it all, we continue to support each other as a community and our mission continues to drive the work we do every single day. Part of that is making sure that no other patient or survivor feels alone like so many of us have. I am reminded of the day I was diagnosed with cervical cancer every time a new request comes into our Comfort Care & Compassion program. I replay what I felt and I put that energy into the love, support, and personalization of that package. 

I am also reminded of my own diagnosis when another woman posts in our private group to share that her cancer is back. It can be heavy to see that over and over again but it only drives my purpose as a community support even further. It empowers me to be brave for others and do important work by reaching out to those who provide care for our community members. In doing so, I’ve been able to build and nurture partnerships like the one with the University of Alabama Birmingham (UAB) and Dr. Christina Wilson. Together we came up with a sexual health and support bag for those going through internal radiation – a little privacy bag for dilators and a business card linking to our support resources here at Cervivor. To hear the feedback from real patients has been truly empowering that we’re doing something meaningful and impactful through this partnership.     

Every time a woman has her ‘ah-ha’ moment through one of our various programming events, it catapults me back to the moment I set foot into a Cervivor School for the very first time. Standing up and speaking at a Cervical Cancer Summit, Cervivor School, or HPV Survivors School, I am in shock and awe that I was in the attendees’ seats only a handful of years ago. It keeps me feeling humble but it’s a great reminder because we are often told just how important our stories are. There is so much truth in that statement because the sharing of our personal stories continues to grow in our outreach across the globe.

2023 is an opportunity to keep learning, growing, and experiencing new things as an individual, community, and organization. One of my favorite parts of this job is getting to know others and their stories – no matter where they’re at in life. To see the uplifting support firsthand from our community members and just how one little “You’ve got this” message isn’t so little at all. Those are the things that drive this community to be who we are today. We are Cervivor. 

I cannot wait to see the expansion of Cervivor, Inc.’s mission even more. It is simple yet impactful and effective: We share our stories to create the change we want to see in this world and in this lifetime. We want to see those who are impacted by cervical cancer to feel empowered and supported because no one should have to ever walk this journey alone.

I know I want cervical cancer to be a thing of the past for our upcoming generations and I believe we can do this. I love to get to know others and the work they are doing in the cervical cancer and HPV-related cancer space! Connect with me on LinkedIn or send Team Cervivor an email at [email protected].

Morgan Newman, MSW, Outside of her Community Engagement Liaison position at Cervivor, you can find Morgan nurturing her relationships with local community partner organizations like the American Cancer Society Cancer Action Network (ACSCAN), the Iowa Cancer Consortium, and serving as a board member for Above and Beyond Cancer. Learn more about Morgan at Cervivor.org.

Making My Survivorship Count

Coretta Scott King once said, “The greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members.“  Now, imagine a community built brick-by-brick by the survivors of trauma; a cancer diagnosis. 

When we look around, we see many familiar support groups and organizations. Even if we’re not personally affected, we understand that these are tiny communities ready to support individuals with similar afflictions. 

Then, there are patients and survivors who are devastated by a cervical cancer diagnosis and, when they emerge from the darkness of life-altering surgeries and brutal treatments, they are hard-pressed to find that beacon that heralds them to the arms of other cervical cancer survivors.

What if there was a community of open arms that also provided you with the voice and the feet with which to make your survivorship count? To make a difference so that others are imbued with knowledge and the inner permission to self-advocate. Fortunately, an organization like that exists in Cervivor! 

Although my staged cancer story began five years ago, my attempts to prevent that cancer began 26 years prior when I was treated for high-grade pre-cancerous cells. Unfortunately, at the time, there wasn’t a lot of information out there about cervical cancer, other than this cancer is related to HPV. I was 46 when I found out that something I’d dealt with as a young woman was back to seriously try to end my life. 

It wasn’t just about letting people know about their Pap tests anymore, it was also about dispelling the stigma that came along with a below-the-belt cancer. As advanced as our society is, we still, in some ways, carry provincial attitudes and morays regarding the female reproductive system. My goal after coming out of treatment and finding a more distinct voice was to educate not only my local community about cervical cancer, but also to break down barriers. These stigmas can lend a hand in the disproportionate amount of needless suffering due to this cancer.

Lorie at Cervivor School Nashville

My advocacy is a calling that I feel obligated to answer. In these last five years, I’ve met with people one-on-one, in groups, and online to facilitate educational forums on HPV, cervical cancer, and preventative testing. I’ve held fundraisers and donated my time to research organizations. I serve as a cancer mentor for the newly diagnosed to help them in their journeys with cancer. These mentees seek guidance from established patients who’ve been through it all. They are matched with mentors who closely align with their needs. During this mentorship, the mentee feels informed, supported, and more at ease with their treatment modality. 

Along with mentorship, I also share my story through multiple social media platforms. I have shared my cancer experience with several cancer centers to provide a patient perspective for the oncology professionals and to provide hope for the oncology patients who see my videos and read my story.

As a Cervivor, my active intention is to broaden the reach of my voice by advocating about the HPV vaccine because, ultimately, we could eradicate HPV-related cancers through vaccination. I love that our Cervivor community aligns with my passion to reach as many people as possible. We do so, not only with compassion and kindness, but also by lending strength. 

I am but one person and I have a story. Together, we are a village and our stories are powerful.

Lorie Wallace is a five-year cervical cancer survivor and recent Cervivor School graduate. She has dedicated her life to cancer advocacy and support by facilitating community education forums on cervical cancer and HPV awareness. Lorie also serves as a cancer patient mentor for the newly diagnosed and for caregivers of cancer patients. She is a fur mom and a wife, who enjoys painting, music, and is a lifetime student of history.