Dear Snooki: Cervivors’ Messages of Support After Her Cervical Cancer Announcement

Graphic featuring Nicole “Snooki” Polizzi with text reading “Dear Snooki: Messages from Cervivors” and Cervivor branding

When we heard the news that Jersey Shore star Nicole “Snooki” Polizzi had been diagnosed with cervical cancer, our Cervivor community immediately began reaching out to one another with the same message: “She needs us.” 

So, the rest of this post is for you, Nicole — if we may, Snooki.

Message from Cervivor’s Founder

First, we’d like to introduce our Founder and Chief Visionary Tamika Felder, a cervical cancer survivor who went on to build Cervivor into a leading advocacy and support organization dedicated to ending the disease and ensuring no one faces it alone.

Tamika Felder, cervical cancer survivor and founder of Cervivor, smiling in a professional indoor portrait

When she started Cervivor more than 20 years ago, there wasn’t anything like it: a “safe” place where people could talk freely about what a cervical cancer diagnosis means and how to navigate life during and after treatment. By sharing her own story, she helped others find the courage to share theirs — what we call our Cervivor Stories — proving just how powerful visibility and connection can be to both healing and combatting stigma. Her message for you:

“Hearing the words, ‘You have cancer,’ is the record scratch of all scratches. From back when you were on Jersey Shore, you’ve always lived out loud — I was a little like that, too. Cervical cancer was the last thing on my radar when I was a twentysomething TV producer in D.C. 

Your TikTok announcement took us through all the feels we’ve each experienced in our own way. When you said, ‘I just feel like it’s very common in women,’ you were absolutely right — it is. But it doesn’t have to be. We have the tools to prevent cervical cancer — and even eliminate it someday.

@snooki

A little update for my ladies ???????? #cervicalcancer

♬ original sound – Snooki

I’m so glad that that ‘plethora of ladies’ showed up for you on TikTok. You said it yourself — so many women go through this silently. But there is a place where people are talking about it openly, supporting one another, and sharing their stories: Cervivor.

Keep sharing your journey in your own authentic, vulnerable way. Stories have the power to save lives.”

Messages from the Cervivor Community

We asked members of our community what they would say to you after hearing of your diagnosis. Many have turned their pain into purpose and their platforms into powerful tools for awareness — especially after completing our advocacy training program, Cervivor School.

Group of Cervivor School attendees sitting in a circle around a fire pit on a beach at night, sharing support and connection
Attendees at the 2018 Cervivor School in Cape Cod, connecting on the beach after a day of advocacy training.

Here are their words of wisdom and encouragement:

“Snooki, cancer is a devastating diagnosis, and every journey is different. One day, your story will change someone’s life, so your struggle isn’t in vain. Cervical cancer, like any below-the-belt cancer, carries stigma—but know this: 4 out of 5 women will receive an HPV diagnosis by age 50. That’s most women. You are not alone. When you’re ready, share your story and the facts. Nearly everyone will have high-risk HPV at some point, and many won’t even know it because it often has no symptoms.” Lorie Wallace, Michigan, 8.5-year survivor

“Dear Snooki,
Hearing ‘you have cancer’ is life-changing—it’s scary, overwhelming, and uncertain. But there is a community called Cervivor where people truly understand what you’re going through—the fear, the emotions, the long-lasting impact. Some of us are still in treatment, others are navigating survivorship, but all of us are here for you.

Know that you aren’t alone.
Know that your story matters.
Know that your voice matters.

We are all here for you.” Lindsay Gullatte-Lee, North Carolina, 3-year survivor

“We all know how brave it is to ‘come out’ with a cervical cancer diagnosis. The stigma can be brutal. Even well-meaning comments can sting — and it’s amplified when you’re in the public eye. People hear ‘STI’ and jump to harmful assumptions, often without understanding the facts. Education is our strongest tool. This cancer is no more ‘deserved’ than any other. I commend Snooki’s bravery and wish her strength, resilience, and healing.” —Danielle D., New York, 9-year survivor

“Dear Snooki,
Don’t listen to the negativity. I’m so grateful you’re using your platform to raise awareness. I know how scary this moment is—the diagnosis is often the hardest part. I’m sending you strength, love, and support as you begin this journey. You now have a community standing beside you, ready to help educate and push back against misinformation.” Kellie DeFelice, Massachusetts, 4-year survivor

“The stigma is almost as difficult as the diagnosis. I often remind people that HPV, like anything else transmitted sexually (including pregnancy), can happen from just one time with one partner.” Cindy Craddock, California, 21-year survivor

“Dear Snooki,
In the beginning, after the diagnosis, emotions run wild—fear, anger, confusion. You may ask, ‘Why me?’ I remember crying until there were no tears left. But through prayer, I found strength and faith. My ‘why me’ became ‘why not me,’ and I chose to fight. Treatment is not easy, but with faith, you can get through it. Hold on to your belief, trust the process, and keep going. I’m looking forward to hearing your Cervivor Story.” Tukesia Banks, Mississippi, 3-year survivor

“First and foremost, this is NOT your fault. Keep sharing your story—putting a face to this disease is powerful. That’s how we change hearts, minds, and awareness around prevention. I’d also encourage sharing Cervivor stories so you can see the strength of this community and know you’re not alone.” Carol Lacey, California, 15-year survivor

“Hello dear Nicole, I just want you to know we’re thinking of you, rooting for you, and sending you so much love.” Maritza Manjarrez, California, currently in treatment

Keep in Touch!

Snooki, if you ever need a place where someone can say, “I’ve been there,” we are here. We’d love you to join one of our upcoming Creating Connections virtual meetups or share your Cervivor Story with our audience. No rush. Whenever you’re ready. 

With strength, solidarity, and so much love,

The Cervivor Community

We Are the Legacy: Black Survivor Voices Shaping a Future Without Cervical Cancer

By Kyle Minnis, Cervivor Communications Assistant

When we talk about Black History Month, we often focus on the names everyone knows: movement builders, artists, scientists, and changemakers whose impact is still felt today. In cervical cancer, there is another history — one often unnamed: a history of medical mistrust that continues to shape what Black individuals with a cervix experience in exam rooms and oncology wards.

At Cervivor School Kansas City, Tiera was named a 2025 Cervivor Champion.

Cervivor Ambassador and Lead of Cervivor Noir Tiera Wade, who recently wrote a blog post celebrating Black physicians addressing cervical cancer disparities, says this reality shaped her own experience. Many Black women report that their pain and symptoms are minimized or dismissed.

“I was experiencing back pain, vaginal bleeding, and pain during intercourse, but I didn’t realize it was all preventable,” says the Akron, Ohio, resident, who was diagnosed during COVID after waiting months to be treated. “If I had been properly educated and prioritized as an African American woman — made aware of what HPV was — I would have been more proactive.”

During a recent panel Tiera moderated at the 2026 Cervical Cancer Summit Powered by Cervivor, Inc., Dr. Paris Thomas, PhD, MS, of Equal Hope in Chicago, shared how her grandmother often told the story of why her own mother never delivered her children in a hospital. After losing a baby there, she believed hospitals were unsafe and never returned. That pain carried across generations.

“Trust starts in our homes,” Dr. Thomas explained. And rebuilding it requires working within communities — asking what they need and creating care that feels familiar and respectful.

Tiera (second from left) moderated a Community In Action panel at the 2026 Cervical Cancer Summit featuring public health experts, including Dr. Thomas (at right). 

For Tiera, navigating treatment alone during the pandemic became an unexpected source of strength. “Because my treatment happened in the middle of COVID, I really had to use my voice,” she said. “I had to show up for myself. It gave me my power back.”

This February, Cervivor honors Black History Month by centering the voices of Black survivors — like Tiera and her fellow Black Cervivor community members featured below — while advancing its critical work to address persistent inequities and support individuals of color affected by cervical cancer.

From History to Right Now

Cervical cancer’s story cannot be told without Black women. In the 1950s, Henrietta Lacks, a young Black mother treated for cervical cancer, had her cells taken without her consent. Those cells became the first immortal human cell line and helped pave the way for countless scientific breakthroughs, including research that ultimately contributed to HPV vaccines.

Henrietta Lacks

Enslaved Black women, often called the “Mothers of Gynecology,” were also subjected to experimentation without anesthesia or consent. That lingering mistrust still echoes today, shaping how safe it feels to seek care, ask questions, or advocate for oneself.

The disparities persist. Black women are more likely to die from cervical cancer than any other racial or ethnic group. They are more often diagnosed at a later stage, even though screening rates are often similar to or higher than those of white women. The issue is not simply whether a Pap or HPV test is done. It is what happens before and after: whether symptoms are taken seriously, abnormal results are followed up on, and treatment is accessible and affordable.

Barriers extend beyond the exam room — insurance gaps, transportation, childcare, time off work, and broader systemic inequities all affect access.

At the Summit, Dr. Thomas highlighted a stark example from Chicago. Brachytherapy centers — critical for cervical cancer treatment — are not located in the neighborhoods with the highest mortality rates. In Washington Park, a predominantly Black neighborhood with a lower median income, women are about 1.5 times more likely to die from cervical cancer than women in neighboring Hyde Park, just across the street and home to the University of Chicago.

“The difference isn’t distance,” Dr. Thomas said. “It’s economics. It’s access. It’s whether the system is designed with you in mind.”

 At the 2026 Summit, Dr. Thomas shared insights on Chicago communities and the disproportionate cervical cancer outcomes they face.

We Are the Legacy: Black Cervivor Stories that Tell the Truth

Every statistic about cervical cancer has faces and families behind it. Here are just some stories from Black members of the Cervivor community: 

Shondria’s Story

Shondria Vaughns’s cervical cancer diagnosis forced her to make an unimaginable choice: giving up her dream of having more children to save her life. In 2008, she underwent a radical hysterectomy after a 1-centimeter tumor was discovered. Later, she learned that several women in her family had faced gynecologic cancers, underscoring the importance of knowing your medical history. Today, she shares her story to stress that awareness and regular Pap tests can protect lives.

Tukesia’s Story

At 44, Tukesia’s life changed suddenly when a severe hemorrhage led to a Stage IV cervical cancer diagnosis. After coding in the hospital from blood loss, she endured weeks of radiation, chemotherapy, and brachytherapy while fighting to stay strong for her family. The journey tested her physically and emotionally, but it also strengthened her faith and resolve. Now a 2025 Cervivor School graduate, she advocates for vaccination and reminds women that they are never alone. Watch this recent video on CervivorTV about Tukesia’s cervical cancer journey.

Urika’s Story

Urika Fraser faced not only cervical cancer, but also insurance barriers that delayed her treatment. Her doctor ultimately admitted her to the hospital to begin chemotherapy, even arranging radiation at no cost. She spent more than six weeks hospitalized and later underwent lung surgery after the cancer spread. Through it all, Urika remained determined to fight for her life and her three children.

Felicia’s Story

Felicia Fe Fea endured years of severe bleeding and repeated dismissal of her concerns, despite a history of abnormal Pap tests. After months of hemorrhaging and a blood transfusion, she underwent a hysterectomy, only to learn she had stage 2B cervical cancer. Her cervix was overtaken by a tumor that had gone undiagnosed. Today, she speaks out about the importance of self-advocacy and making sure patients are truly heard.

Each of these stories reveals something the data alone cannot convey. They reveal the emotional labor of self-advocacy, the exhaustion of navigating systems not designed with Black women in mind, and the resilience of survivors pushing forward — not only for themselves, but for those who will come after them.

Finding Community through Cervivor

Healing from cervical cancer and navigating survivorship are deeply emotional and cultural experiences. For Black women, that means having spaces where they do not have to explain or downplay who they are to be heard.

That is why Cervivor Noir exists. Our community for Black women impacted by cervical cancer creates space to speak openly about racism and bias in healthcare, fears around family and fertility, and the role faith, culture, and community play in survivorship. There is a private Facebook group, and virtual Cervivor Noir meetups are every third Saturday of the month at 2 p.m. EST (register for the next one here).

Tiera (top right) and members of Cervivor Noir at this month’s virtual meetup.

“It’s a place where someone can say, ‘This happened to me,’ and hear, ‘I believe you — I’ve been there,’” says Cervivor Founder and Chief Visionary Tamika Felder, who launched the organization 21 years ago after her own diagnosis. “When I went looking for support, I found no voices that looked or sounded like mine.”

Recently, Tamika reflected on this early journey in an interview with ESSENCE, sharing the very real barriers to care she faced as a freelance TV producer in Washington, D.C., without health insurance — circumstances that led her to put off regular screenings.

Cervivor Founder Tamika during her time as a freelance TV producer, when she was diagnosed with cervical cancer.

“I thought, ‘I don’t need it… if I get sick, I’ll just go to the emergency room,’” she told ESSENCE. As a result, she went several years without routine screenings and only discovered her cancer after a doctor treating her for a painful boil under her arm asked when she had last had a Pap test. By then, treatment was urgent. She needed a hysterectomy immediately, leaving no time — and no financial flexibility — to pursue fertility preservation.

For much of her adult life, Tamika believed that meant she would never have children. Since then, she has spoken openly about normalizing all fertility journeys — including what it’s like to be a Black mom to a non-Black toddler, her son, Chayton, the original “Cervivor Baby,” who was born through embryo donation and gestational surrogacy in November 2022.

Tamika’s lived experience — along with that of so many Black women and other women of color — is exactly why Cervivor’s events and programs are intentionally designed to center them, not merely include them. Through retreats, advocacy training, and community conversations, Cervivor is building spaces where Black survivors feel seen, supported, and empowered.

This Black History Month, we honor the Black women whose bodies and lives shaped modern gynecology and cancer research, often without consent or recognition. We also honor today’s Black Cervivors —Tiera, Shondria, Tukesia, Urika, and Felicia Fe Fea — who are turning their stories into blueprints for change and their communities into sources of strength.

When Black survivors’ voices are prioritized, we move closer to a future where cervical cancer is not another chapter in injustice, but a story of collective courage, community, and change.

About the Author

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