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Thriving, Not Just Surviving: Inspiring Stories from Cervical Cancer Survivors

For many cervical cancer survivors, healing goes beyond remission, often leading to advocacy that raises awareness and offers strength. Here, Cervivor community members and cervical cancer advocates Christy Basa Chambers, Athena Porter, and Lorie Wallace share personal reflections on how their journey with cervical cancer has helped them thrive — not just survive.

If you’re in need of a pick-me-up, read on!

Christy’s Story: Living Her ‘Dash’

About Christy: An 18-month Stage IV cervical cancer survivor, Christy Basa Chambers lives in Monroe, NC, with her family. She’s a Cervivor Ambassador, 2023 Cervivor School graduate, and winner of the 2024 Brittany Wagner Social Media Advocacy Award.

This image shows cervical cancer survivor, Christy, who is from North Carolina. She has teal hair and glasses with a ruffled white shirt.
Christy Basa Chambers (photo by Molly Dockery Photography)

“I was given a second chance at living.”

When I first wrote that phrase in a blog post, I paused. Was it “a second chance at life,” or did I really mean living? Are they different? I think they are. Life is the span of time we are given, but living is what we do with that time.

The distinction became clear after my diagnosis of Stage IV metastatic cervical cancer. Facing my mortality forced me to ask hard questions: How would I be remembered? What legacy would I leave? These questions didn’t just make me reflect on my past; they became a wake-up call to reevaluate my present. Survival wasn’t enough for me — I wanted to thrive.

But thriving didn’t happen overnight. It was a choice I made every day, even when it felt impossible. I had to face my fears and let go of what didn’t serve me.

Now, I’m living my “dash.” What’s a dash? It’s that little line between the dates of our birth and death. It’s small, yet so powerful, because it represents everything we do while we’re here. Cancer taught me to live my dash with intention — to focus on love, kindness, generosity, and joy.

Advocacy has been one of the most transformative ways I’ve chosen to live my dash. As a Cervivor Ambassador, I’ve found healing through helping others. Sharing my story and empowering others to share theirs has given me a sense of purpose and a way to leave an impact.

Who am I? A Cervivor, a thriver, and an opti-mystic who sees the world through the eyes of possibility. That’s the legacy I want to leave.

Athena’s Story: Overcoming Survivor’s Guilt

About Athena: Athena Porter was diagnosed with cervical cancer in 2023. She lives in Iowa with her husband and two little girls. Since her diagnosis, Athena has served on a panel at the 2024 Cervical Cancer Summit and continues to advocate for cervical cancer awareness and prevention.

Athena Porter

To call myself a “cervical cancer survivor” used to feel like a fraud. My cancer was caught early, and my treatment was a radical hysterectomy. Diagnosed after having two children, I was spared the devastation of infertility and the physical toll of chemo, radiation, or brachytherapy. I got to keep my hair.

In contrast, many of the women in the Cervivor community I’ve been blessed to meet since my diagnosis have endured grueling treatments. They’ve shaved their heads, relocated for care, lost their fertility, and dealt with the lingering effects of treatment-induced trauma. Despite facing anxiety, depression, pain, and significant physical challenges, they continue to persevere and advocate for those without a voice. I am honored to know these women. Their strength, passion, and unwavering light inspire me.

Still, survivor’s guilt is real. My experience feels minimal in comparison because I “only” needed surgery to remove my cancer. Thankfully, the incredible women I admire have reminded me that it wasn’t “just” surgery or “just” stage 1A cancer. They’ve encouraged and supported me, helping me embrace my journey as valid. Their support has been instrumental in helping me thrive, not just survive.

I’ve been given a platform to advocate not only for those impacted by cervical cancer but also for its prevention. My hysterectomy was radical and represented the best-case treatment scenario for me, but the true best-case scenario is no cancer at all. Supporting the HPV vaccine, promoting early screenings, and advocating for proper treatment is the least I can do for all the women battling cervical cancer.

Lorie’s Story: Never Giving Up

About Lorie: Lorie Wallace, a Detroit resident, was diagnosed with invasive cervical adenocarcinoma in 2017. She underwent surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy, and later developed radiation-induced lumbosacral plexopathy (RILP), a debilitating condition with no cure. Today, as a Cervivor Ambassador and 2022 Cervivor Champion, she inspires others with her resilience.

This image shows Lorie, a cervical cancer survivor from Michigan wearing a black "Making Cancer Pay" t-shirt. She has blonde hair, blue eyes, and brownish pink lipstick.
Lorie Wallace during Cervivor School 2022

Sometimes, I wait until I’m alone to scream at the injustice of it all. But I refuse to let cervical cancer or my radiation-induced lumbosacral plexopathy (RILP) define me.  

I’ve learned that while I can’t control everything, everything cannot control me. I’ve found ways to adapt and thrive, not just survive. I’ve focused on strengthening the muscles not affected by plexopathy, embraced the support of my cane, and let go of the stigma I once felt about using a disabled parking pass. Learning to give myself grace and to see these tools not as symbols of weakness but of perseverance has been a profound part of my journey.

Through advocacy, I’ve reclaimed my purpose. As a Cervivor Ambassador, a cancer support coach, and a mentor with organizations like Imerman Angels, I use my voice to help others navigate life after cancer. This work has been as healing for me as it has been impactful for others. I’ve discovered that purpose can emerge even from the darkest times.

For me, advocacy is more than action — it’s a declaration: I am still here, I am still fighting, and I will never give up.

Interested in Patient Advocacy?

Christy, Athena, and Lorie’s stories show that surviving cancer is only the beginning. By turning their experiences into cervical cancer patient advocacy, they’ve found healing, hope, and a way to thrive. You can make a difference too! 

Here’s how you can get involved with Cervivor advocacy:

  • Attend Cervivor School: Gain training to become a leader in cervical cancer advocacy. Sign up to receive the latest updates!
  • Support Through Donations: Help fund programs that empower survivors.
  • Raise Awareness: Promote cervical cancer prevention and survivorship.

Together, we can thrive, not just survive — and make a difference! 

A Turn of Events

Gilma Pereda, Cervical Cancer Patient

“You have a metastasis.”

These are the words that every cancer survivor fears – not only because they mean the cancer is back, but because it has spread to other parts of the body, which has the potential to make treatment a highly complex endeavor.

I was a couple of months shy of the 5-year mark of living cancer free when I received the scary news. And because life is funny that way, it happened right on Halloween, my favorite holiday. Since I received instructions to go to the hospital immediately for an emergency neck neurosurgery, I donned a realistic “ER Patient” costume that day, a neck brace and all.

How did I get there, you might ask? I went to all my 3-month, 6-month, and 12-month checkups. I followed all the post-treatment instructions carefully, from quitting alcohol and sugar to using the dilator mostly every night. I exercised regularly and practiced meditation. My last pap in October 2020 was clear.

It all started with acute pain in my right shoulder, which I thought was work-related tendinitis (I’m a graphic designer, and I use a graphic tablet daily). The pain traveled to my back, neck, and left shoulder – it felt like my joints were on fire. I started having high fevers and chills and woke up every night drenched in sweat.

I went to see my primary doctor, who diagnosed pneumonia. I finished the 10-day antibiotic treatment, but the pain continued. He then ordered special labs and scans. The inflammation markers were up high, and the scans revealed a large mass in the right lung. A more specialized CT scan showed many lytic lesions (bone cancer) all over my body, the more significant ones in a couple of cervicals, right next to the spinal cord. The delicate nature of those lesions was what prompted the surgery.

A lot happened after my Halloween adventure: I had a lung biopsy, a blood transfusion (due to dangerously low hemoglobin levels), and a few nightly trips to the ER that introduced me to opioids and the glory of morphine shots. But that way of dealing with physical pain destroyed my gastrointestinal system, so I ended up in the hospital for what felt like an eternity. Once there, I was on suicidal watch for a few days. But after my first chemo treatment, my oncologist was hopeful – my age qualified me to get a new treatment after chemo. Moreover, there was a good possibility that I could get into remission in a couple of years.

The doctors sent the lung biopsy to quite a few places for research. The results indicated it was cervical cancer. Again. I must confess I found it amusing that I had cervical cancer in my cervicals.

The journey has not been easy. The first thing I did when I was able to get out of my head was to contact a few of my Cervivor sisters. I’ve received greeting cards, care packages, soft hoodies and beanies that I wear all the time (Monterey is chilly!), and loving support, even from sisters who don’t even know me! I’m forever grateful to this wonderful community of strong women who encourage me to keep going.

I’m not officially cancer free yet, but I no longer experience the excruciating pain that comes with bone cancer. After eight rounds of chemo, most of my lesions are getting healed, and the lung tumor is shrinking significantly. As a result, I went from being bedridden to walking with a cane to going on light hikes and walks. I love my new eyelashes, eyebrows, and pixie haircut. In addition, I’m receiving immunotherapy every three weeks, so I now have the energy to go back to school, keep up with my work as a freelance designer, and enjoy quality time with my family and friends.

As October is officially here, I’m starting to plan my Halloween costume. This year I refuse to wear a scary one – I want something inspiring and hopeful. Maybe I could be a “Cervivor Advocate.” It’s payback time.

Gilma Pereda is a metastatic and recurrent cervical cancer patient located in sunny California. She is a graphic designer and translator who wants to lend her skills to a good cause – an effort to educate women and men about HPV and what they can do to prevent it, to promote vaccines for children, and to motivate women that are living with cancer today to feel empowered.