Navigating the Unseen Battle of Mental Health in Cervical Cancer

By Morgan Newman, MSW, Community Engagement Liaison

As the Community Engagement Liaison for Cervivor, Inc., I’ve had the privilege of supporting many individuals through their cervical cancer journeys. While treatment and physical recovery often take center stage, it’s crucial to recognize the profound mental, emotional, and psychological impact of cervical cancer, which can be overwhelming, isolating, and frightening.

Janice Le-Nguyen

At Cervivor—founded 20 years ago to support those affected by the disease—we don’t shy away from facing these challenges head-on. Many in our community say that the been-there-done-that understanding and solidarity they find here play a vital role in their healing.

Janice Le-Nguyen, a Cervivor celebrating four years of being NED (no evidence of disease) after Stage 1A2 cervical cancer, shares: “I am appreciative of finding the Cervivor community and finding pathways to not feel ashamed and that I can freely discuss HPV, the cervix, and all the ‘fun’ I went through.”

I felt the same way after surviving Stage III at 24. Getting involved with Cervivor and advocating for fellow survivors helped me reclaim my voice and purpose.

But the cervical cancer journey is complex. Emotional highs and lows are part of the experience. Here are some of the most frequent mental health concerns our community members face—and why it’s so important we talk about them openly, without judgment or fear.

Survivor’s Guilt

Feeling grateful to be alive while struggling with the aftermath of treatment can bring on guilt and self-doubt, especially when others faced tougher outcomes or didn’t survive. On average, about 10 women from our immediate Cervivor community die each year—and it never gets easier to say goodbye.

Cervivor’s “In Memoriam” graphic is a solemn tribute to many of the lives lost since the organization’s start.

These losses weigh heavily, but they keep us grounded in our mission to eradicate the disease. Rather than staying stuck in cycles of guilt, many of us find healing through action. 

That’s been true for Janice. “Through Cervivor, I realized that by sharing my story, I could inspire others to get screened, ask questions, and take charge of their health,” says the quiet but fierce advocate, who started local community outreach with Cervivor a few years back.

We encourage all survivors to share their Cervivor Stories when they feel ready—each one adds powerful momentum to our mission and gives hope to others. If you’d like to share your experience, consider filling out this questionnaire and submitting a photo.

Scanxiety and Fear of Recurrence

Scanxiety—a term widely used in the cancer community—describes the intense anxiety and fear that can build up around follow-up scans and tests.

Me during my metastatic recurrence.

As a metastatic/recurrent survivor, I know this feeling all too well. Nine years ago, I was given just a 7–9% chance of ever being cancer-free—and yet, here I am. Still, every new ache, pain, or side effect can feel like a potential sign of recurrence.

A supportive community makes a difference. In our Cervivor Facebook group, for example, many members openly share their experiences with scanxiety and offer practical ways they’ve learned to cope. Just knowing you’re not the only one feeling this way can bring relief. And as always, consult your health provider if symptoms arise.

Body-Related and Intimacy Issues

Changes to the body can deeply affect self-esteem and relationships. Radiation side effects, like needing a cane or wheelchair, can be life-altering. Invisible disabilities like lymphedema, ostomies, and hearing loss require constant management.

Survivors in our community, including Lead Cervivor Ambassador Carol Lacey and others like Lorie Wallace, Sara Johney, Gabrielle McCord, Mary Clarkson-Grubb, Sally Kwenda, Maria Franklin, Julie Groob, Karla Chavez, and Talitha Stempin, navigate these challenges with strength and grace. Tools like lymphatic compression gear, ostomy bags, and hearing aids become part of daily life and symbols of resilience.

These survivors’ courageous approach to life after cancer, despite visible and invisible disabilities, shows the strength and resilience within our community. Clockwise from top left: Carol, Lorie, Gabrielle, Karla, Mary, Talitha, Julie, Sara, Maria, and Sally.

Body changes can also affect physical and emotional intimacy. Survivors have bravely opened up about their experiences on the Cervivor Blog, and a recent CervivorTV video, hosted by Founder and Chief Visionary Tamika Felder and featuring Dr. Christina Wilson, a board-certified women’s health nurse practitioner, dives into navigating body image and sexual health. It’s a must-watch.

Depression

The trauma of a cancer diagnosis and treatment can trigger depression—a reality that affects up to 25% of cancer patients, according to the National Cancer Institute (NCI). Yet, only a fraction receive the mental health support they need. Left unaddressed, depression can slow recovery, weaken the immune system, and negatively impact survival.

Kyana Johnson

Cervivor community member Kyana Johnson, diagnosed with Stage IIIB cervical cancer at 26, has shared her mental health struggles on the blog. She found comfort in self-care practices like journaling, meditation, coloring, and listening to music. Seeing a therapist at least twice a week was especially transformative.

“It was some of the best conversations I’ve ever had,” recalled Kyana, now seven years in remission. “My therapist helped me make sense of a lot of my emotions.”

And she offers this encouragement to others: “Remember that you are worth it. You shouldn’t be ashamed to seek mental health advice when your anxiety or stress feels too heavy.”

I’m also inspired by survivors like Danielle Glick and Jessica Martin, who have become psychotherapists since their cervical cancer experience. Their journeys show how healing mental and emotional health can lead to purpose, helping others find strength during the most difficult times.

You Are Never Alone

Because cervical cancer’s link to HPV can carry stigma, many feel isolated. But within Cervivor, we work to break that silence. We notice when someone goes quiet, we reach out, and we hold space for each other—without pressure to always “be okay.”

Ultimately, connection is essential to mental health recovery. Healing requires both safety and vulnerability. By naming and normalizing our struggles, we build resilience—and a supportive community that truly sees us. As Kyana put it, joining support groups like Cervivor helped her mental well-being because “they got it.”

Our mantra is simple: You are never alone. Whether through private groups, monthly support meetups, or personal check-ins, there is always a place for you here.

Ready to build meaningful relationships and support others in their cancer journeys? Join our monthly Creating Connections virtual meetup, designed for cancer patients, survivors, and thrivers. This supportive community is a safe space to share experiences, find resources, and connect with others who understand. Register for our next virtual meetup today.

About Morgan Newman, MSW

A resilient young adult (AYA) cervical cancer survivor, social worker, and dedicated patient advocate, Morgan has transformed her experience into a powerful force for change. After overcoming metastatic and recurrent cervical cancer at 24, she became a Cervivor Ambassador in 2017 and has since led global advocacy efforts. Her leadership roles include Community Engagement Liaison at Cervivor, board member for Above and Beyond Cancer and the Iowa Cancer Consortium, and Iowa State Lead Ambassador for the American Cancer Society Cancer Action Network (ACS CAN). She also serves on the Iowa Immunizes Coalition and as a patient advocate for the NIH’s Enduring Guidelines and Extended Genotyping Panels, and the NCI’s Patient Advocacy Steering Committee and Cervical Task Force. Morgan’s work has earned her awards and recognition, solidifying her as a leading voice in the fight against cancer.

What Happens After Survival? The Hidden Toll of Infertility After Cervical Cancer

According to a National Health Statistics Report by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), approximately 13.4% of women of reproductive age (15-49) in the United States have difficulty getting pregnant or carrying a pregnancy to term. For cervical cancer patients and survivors, the risk of infertility is significantly higher due to treatments such as surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. Studies suggest that approximately 80% of cervical cancer patients and survivors are interested in parenthood, and up to 38% of them may experience infertility or difficulty conceiving after treatment.

That’s why, during Infertility Awareness Week (April 20 to 26), Cervivor is amplifying this critical conversation—talking openly about the often overlooked emotional and physical toll of infertility after cervical cancer.

The Silent Struggle of Infertility After Cervical Cancer

Infertility after cervical cancer is a harsh reality many survivors face, often in silence. The loss of fertility can be a profound grief that lingers long after treatment has ended, affecting relationships, sense of identity, and future plans in unimaginable ways. Feelings of isolation and loneliness can be overwhelming, especially for those who’ve already endured the trauma of a cancer diagnosis. Here, two members of the Cervivor community open up about the different ways infertility after cervical cancer has shaped their lives.

Heidi’s Story

Heidi Burgard’s journey with cervical cancer began when she was 29. In a long-term relationship and hoping to start a family, her diagnosis upended her plans and forced her to confront a double loss: her fertility and, eventually, her relationship.

Heidi Burgard

“Losing the ability to have children and experiencing the loss of relationships along the way was incredibly difficult,” says Heidi, who is from Northern Colorado. While fertility preservation was discussed at the time of her diagnosis, she chose to prioritize her health and begin treatment immediately. “I still reflect on that decision,” she shares. “And after experiencing three recurrences, I believe—though it was incredibly difficult—it was the right one for me.”

The emotional toll extended beyond her health. After her first recurrence, Heidi’s partner ended their relationship, telling her it was “too much” to handle. “It was heartbreaking and eye-opening—one of those moments that shows you not everyone is built to stand beside you when life gets hard. That chapter closed, but it helped shape who I am today,” says Heidi, who has worked in banking for the last 17 years.

Today, Heidi is passionate about helping others feel seen and heard. She finds strength in storytelling, advocacy, and shared experiences. “Survivorship is about both healing and rediscovery,” she says, crediting the Cervivor community for helping her recovery. “I’m grateful to be part of a community that embraces the full complexity of that journey.”

Cindy’s Story

At 35, Cindy Trice received a life-altering diagnosis: Stage II cervical cancer. This was in 2004, and she had just graduated from veterinary school and was three months into an internship in Tampa, Florida. While survival became her focus, the loss of fertility was a lasting consequence.

Cindy Trice

“I’m not even sure I wanted children… but over the years, the loss of the ability to have children has haunted me,” she shares. Her candid reflection captures the complex and often conflicting emotions that many cancer survivors face—grief not only for what was lost, but also for what might have been.

Now a 25-year survivor, Cindy has transformed adversity into advocacy. Her experience inspired her to co-found KickIt Pajamas, a company focused on creating stylish, dignified hospital and recovery wear for women—the kind she and other Cervivors longed for during treatment. What began as a personal need has evolved into a mission to uplift and support others facing similar challenges.

Through KickIt Pajamas and her ongoing involvement with Cervivor, Cindy helps others find strength in their own stories. Her journey is a testament to resilience, reinvention, and the healing power of shared experience.

How Cervivor Can Help

At Cervivor, we understand that survivorship is more than just making it through treatment. It’s about navigating the emotional aftermath, redefining your future, and finding hope again, like both Heidi and Cindy shared. Our community offers a safe space to process grief, share stories, and connect with others who truly understand.

Additionally, financial assistance is available for those pursuing parenthood, helping to ease the burdens of this often unpredictable journey. Read on about a special gift fund and keep reading for our latest list of trusted fertility resources and partners. 

The Virginia “Ginny” Marable Cervivor Baby Gift Fund: A Lifeline for Survivors

During an online seminar Cervivor hosted in April 2020, Cervivor Founder and Chief Visionary Tamika Felder met Ginny Marable, a fellow cervical cancer survivor and 36-year-old human resources director. As Tamika spoke about having to “bury” her hope of having children, Ginny was struck. “I was very moved by Tamika’s story,” she says. “She wasn’t really given the choice to preserve her fertility.”

Ginny, who married her husband Sean in November 2018, was thrilled when doctors thawed one of their frozen embryos. The embryo split, and their gestational carrier gave birth to identical twins in March 2021. With their family now complete, Ginny and Sean were left with four remaining embryos—and a big decision. It didn’t take long for Ginny to know what she wanted to do: she offered the embryos to her friend. 

Out of that generosity and connection, The Virginia “Ginny” Marable Cervivor Baby Gift Fund was born. This fund offers tangible support for cervical cancer survivors navigating fertility services and family-building options. 

Dulcely Tavarez, the first recipient of the Cervivor Baby Gift Fund, shares: “This grant has been such a meaningful part of my journey to parenthood. It’s not only helping to ease the financial burden of adoption, but it’s also a powerful reminder that I’m not alone. Knowing there’s a community standing beside me, cheering me on, gives me so much strength and hope.”

Dulcely Tavarez

Pathway to Parenthood: Helpful Resources

Access to the right resources can make all the difference. Cervivor’s Pathway to Parenthood Helpful Resources offers a comprehensive list of organizations, support groups, and services that support fertility preservation, family-building, emotional care, and financial assistance—providing a vital lifeline for survivors looking to start or grow their families. 

Whether you’re exploring adoption, surrogacy, or fertility treatments, these resources can provide valuable guidance, support, and hope as you navigate your path to parenthood.

How You Can Help

For many survivors, the journey doesn’t end with remission. Cancer treatments can leave lasting scars, including the pain of infertility. By acknowledging this often-overlooked struggle, we can build a more compassionate community that supports survivors in every part of their healing.

Here are some meaningful ways you can make a difference—within the Cervivor community and beyond:

  • Raise awareness about how cervical cancer treatments impact fertility
  • Share stories like Heidi’s and Cindy’s from the Cervivor website
  • Share your own story about infertility and cervical cancer
  • Advocate for fertility preservation and post-treatment support
  • Offer survivors a listening ear and a safe space to share
  • Donate to the Virginia “Ginny” Marable Cervivor Baby Gift Fund to help someone take one step closer to the family they’ve dreamed of

Infertility Awareness Week reminds us that the path to parenthood may look different for cervical cancer survivors—but different doesn’t mean impossible. Through shared stories, community support, and advocacy, we can bring hope and healing to those navigating this difficult road. Together, we can turn empathy into action. Every shared story, every act of support, and every donation brings us closer to a world where no one has to walk this journey alone.